Are You Premeditating Your Action?

We need to move into this next phase of our journey where we're checking in on ourselves, but not to the level that we take everything seriously or we premeditate our action. Sometimes you can have certain friends who are so deep and trying to be so intelligent and so switched on that they've lost that humanness. And if you lose your humanness, then how are you supposed to connect? Because we are human. So just being able to vocalise to this person, like what you actually need in the relationship or the friendship or whatever the dynamic is, of just saying like, hey, I just need like lightheartedness or do you mind if we don't have any