The Last Con That I Have Is the Loss of Freedom

i can't even imagine how fucking up tight i would be if i had a child who's vulnerable for the first 20 years of its life. If you're, you know, naturally an anxious person, this could potentially be very debilitating for you. The last con that i have in my head anyway, is just the loss of freedom. I was somebody that could not handle a baby sitter. Like my parents had no freedom. A, if they wanted to go on a trip or do something without me, they simply could not because i was far too clingy. And vice versa, cause they obviously didn't do stuff together.