The Role of Attachment in Interpersonal Behaviors

Our very construction of self and identity who I am is basically tied to how well connected, socially accepted what behaviors lead to my social adhesion with others. So the thing to understand is the feelings that are introjected in us that guide our interpersonal behaviors have nothing to do with a universal truth. They're simply the rule, rule governing behaviors that we adapted to survive and maintain connections with people who kept us alive.