The Sibling Dynamic

I didn't want my father to go into a nursing home. That was incredibly important to me. My siblings, my brother and sister, even though they loved my father equally, I know that. They said, look, you know, he's becoming very volatile. He doesn't recognize he needs help. And we did whatever needed to be done in terms of getting help.And I capitulated too. One of the things that they felt very frustrated with me was that I would always tell my father the truth,. Even if it upset him.