Is There a Good Gay Story or a Bad Gay Story?

I think my teen age self just wanted to blow past it. One of the first songs i ever wrote was, th the title of the song was the middle name of the girl i was in love with. I didn't use pronouns in my songs for probably a decade. It's only been very recent that i've been able to that i felt comfortable to share pronouns and just to write, like, say, what i thounhk an mean? Well, that's really wildand sort of, i mean, when, when? Because of the pronoun stuff, it made me think, when did the non binary in comingto play?