Is Aggression With the Mail a Good Trait?

In a situation where we have a global pandemic, and the worst case tenario is a lot of people die, it's much more likely to cause an emotional reaction from people. There are male and female variants of aggression. And women have been unfairly treated in this regard. Aggression with the mail, in industries like law and advertising, is perceived as a very good trait. But aggression with a female is perceived as something somehow negative. I'm just sick of arguing about it.