Ignatius 13th Rule of Spiritual Consolation and Spiritual Desolation

The 14 Rules of the Discernment of Spirits with Fr. Timothy Gallagher with Kris McGregor

Episode Fourteen: Rule Twelve – Standing Firm at the Beginning of Temptation

Episode 14-The Twelve Rule:

The enemy acts like a woman, in being weak against vigor and strong of will. Because, as it is the way of the woman when she is quarrelling with some man to lose heart, taking flight when the man shows her much courage: and on the contrary, if the man, losing heart, begins to fly, the wrath, revenge, and ferocity of the woman is very great, and so without bounds; in the same manner, it is the way of the enemy to weaken and lose heart, his temptations taking flight, when the person who is exercising himself in spiritual things opposes a bold front against the temptations of the enemy, doing diametrically the opposite. And on the contrary, if the person who is exercising himself commences to have fear and lose heart in suffering the temptations, there is no beast so wild on the face of the earth as the enemy of human nature in following out his damnable intention with so great malice.

Episode Fourteen of The Discernment of Spirits: Setting the Captives Free focuses on Rule Twelve, where St. Ignatius of Loyola reveals a decisive truth about temptation. Fr. Timothy Gallagher, in conversation with Kris McGregor, explains that the enemy is weak when faced with strength and strong only when met with weakness.

Fr. Gallagher begins by naming an important shift in the rules. Until now, Ignatius has focused primarily on spiritual desolation, the heaviness of heart that drains desire for prayer and goodness. In Rule Twelve, Ignatius turns directly to temptation, which is a deceptive suggestion that may initially feel attractive and may not include heaviness at all. Temptation often appears as a small invitation. It seems harmless. It feels manageable. This is precisely where its danger lies.

Ignatius presents a striking metaphor to describe the enemy’s behavior. While the original image is intentionally unsettling, Fr. Gallagher offers a clearer substitute. The enemy is like a spoiled child whose power depends entirely on the response of the parents. When the parents hesitate or appease, the child’s behavior escalates. When the parents are firm, the behavior stops immediately. The enemy, Ignatius teaches, operates in exactly the same way.

Fr. Gallagher explains the central teaching of Rule Twelve. When a person stands firm at the beginning of a temptation, the enemy loses heart and withdraws. When a person hesitates, reasons, or begins to give way, the temptation grows stronger. The enemy’s apparent power comes only from delay. Strength exposes weakness. Firmness brings freedom.

To make this concrete, Fr. Gallagher uses the image of a snowball at the top of a mountain. At the very beginning, it can be stopped with a single finger. Once it gains speed and mass, it becomes dangerous and difficult to stop. Temptation follows the same pattern. The earliest moment is the easiest moment to resist. Every delay increases difficulty and sorrow.

This rule is illustrated through Scripture. Fr. Gallagher contrasts Eve, who enters into dialogue with the tempter and allows the snowball to begin, with Jesus, who immediately counters temptation in the desert with the word of God. One response allows temptation to grow. The other ends it at once.

The episode also draws wisdom from the saints. St. Benedict counsels that wrongful thoughts should be dashed against Christ as soon as they arise. St. Francis of Assisi responds to the slightest sign of discouragement by immediately turning to prayer. Both saints lived the wisdom of Rule Twelve long before it was written.

Fr. Gallagher shares pastoral examples that show how easily temptation escalates when firmness is delayed. A shortened prayer leads to further neglect. A small compromise opens the door to greater discouragement. In contrast, a single firm decision at the beginning often prevents deep spiritual harm.

The episode concludes with a powerful reminder. Rule Twelve is not about extraordinary heroism. It is about timing. The enemy’s tactic succeeds only when allowed to continue. When temptation is met quickly and firmly, freedom is restored. Sorrow is spared. The spiritual life becomes lighter and clearer.

Episode Fourteen presents Rule Twelve as one of the most practical and hope-filled teachings in the Discernment of Spirits. When this rule is remembered and lived, the snowball never begins. The heart remains free. Captives are set free.

Discerning Hearts Questions for Reflection and Study

Personal Reflection

1. Can you recognize early moments when temptation first appears in your daily life?

2. What usually happens when you delay responding to a troubling thought?

3. Have you experienced freedom by acting firmly at the beginning?

4. What small decisions help you remain faithful in prayer and discipline?

5. How does Rule Twelve change your confidence in facing temptation?

Group Reflection or Study

1. Why does Ignatius focus on the beginning of temptation in Rule Twelve?

2. How does the spoiled child image help clarify the enemy’s weakness?

3. What role does delay play in strengthening temptation?

4. How do the examples of Jesus, St. Benedict, and St. Francis confirm this rule?

5. How might this rule help parish communities prevent discouragement and burnout?

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Father Timothy M. Gallagher, O.M.V., was ordained in 1979 as a member of the Oblates of the Virgin Mary, a religious community dedicated to retreats and spiritual formation according to the Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius.  Fr. Gallagher is featured on the EWTN series “Living the Discerning Life:  The Spiritual Teachings of St. Ignatius of Loyola

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