You're the Needy One, Right?

These are the people on the computer that are self-soothing with things. They're very good at auto regulation, taking care of themselves. Stantatkin talks about this. He is one of the authors that has done a really great job of bringing this primary attachment research to therapists and to the public. It's not like these are introverts. These are people that want to be connected, but connection is frightening.