Was He Correct? Yes, I Had Been Hiding Since My Abuse at the Age of Nine

I was physically attacked by some one i knew and trusted at the age of nine. As a nine year old, you don't know how to process what just happened to you. And so emotionally, i got stuck at nine. So when our counsellor hit me with that, my world literally went dark. I never told anybody. The first person i told was dave before we got married. It was a very viceral response. Was he accurate? Yes. This is the other part of the story. I had been hiding since my abuse, and i was stuck at nine years old. If you can explain that, help us better under and what happened,. We'd love to