Lanthia enia: 80% of a therapist's job is to listen. She asks chris how that sits with him, and why it makes him more afraid. He says he has given up his career as a marketing person in order to be a psychologist. But if you're bad at psychology, then what do you do? Lanthia Enia: Is this fear appropriate or inappropriate? Does it mean there's something wrong with me? It's just part of the developmental process.