The Importance of Being Gay

"I knew I was gay even though I didn't have the word gay in my vocabulary but I knew that I liked boys when I was like, great five, ever six pretty young. But through this time I had a reputation for being a bit of a ladies man because I just, I got along with girls little did they know," he says. "In my mind I rationalize that I'm not actually gay unless I have sex with a man as I grew older through high school and everything." He then came out to his best friend at the time who happened to be his ex girlfriend.