The Gottman Method of Conflict Processing

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I like it when couples have been together for a long time. When one is talking, the other one looks at them. If you don't do that, that's not a bad sign. I think too often we have that with our parents, people close to us. Take him for granted. And then if you just look at them and say, wow, this is the most brilliant person I've ever seen in my life. You actually begin to see the beauty of what they're saying. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy. They get a really caring. Yeah. So that's, I mean, that's, the beauty of what the Gottman research showed

Dr. Shannon Curry is a clinical and forensic psychologist who conducts research, therapy, and clinical evaluation pertaining to trauma, violence, and relationships. She testified in the Johnny Depp and Amber Heard trial. Please support this podcast by checking out our sponsors:
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(00:00) – Introduction
(05:41) – Starting a relationship
(09:40) – Couples therapy
(16:57) – Why relationships fail
(24:15) – Drama in relationships
(29:42) – Success in relationships
(36:06) – Dating
(44:42) – Sex
(46:36) – Cheating
(55:37) – Polyamory
(57:28) – Johnny Depp and Amber Heard trial
(1:26:06) – Forensic psychology
(1:36:16) – PTSD
(1:45:51) – Advice for young people
(1:48:42) – Love