How to Reframe a Breakup

I feel like to some extent people can use Use significant others as a way to fill space that is lacking with friends and family. So I guess in my head I see it as almost Not using isn't the right term for it, but it does feel like a little bit expendable If that makes sense. But there is a way where if you find the right person You can integrate them into your friends and family dynamic. Their relationship I really woke up to because they're all basically a part of each other's families.