How to Stop Asking Your Husband to Do Housework

Chapman's new book, The Power of Positive Confirmation. He suggests couples compile lists of their partner's positive traits and then use them as a reminder to give affirming compliments. John Sutter: How many psychological tricks are we as a society? Prepared to deploy To get these guys to do their chores This actually came up a lot in men are from mars women are from venus this idea that as soon as you stop asking him To do things he will spontaneously do them for you Huh, which seems just totally wrong to me because like if all you're doing is being nice to me how would I even know that you want me to paint the bedroom?