How Did You Grow Up With Dissension?

i've always seen both sides of whatever the argument was, or whatever the story is. And i could see why both of them were right and true, and also both were totally wrong. I don't know where that came from, but i grew up in a relatively poor, rough area outside sacramento, california,. pretty rural space. Looking back, everything i've done has put me at the centre of connecting all the different pieces and trying to keep them moving in a specific direction. So you're talking from a position of curiosity, but can you ever remember times, maybe, growing up where you saw arguments, and it was actually somewhat painful and frustrating? Like gees,