What if I Don't Have That?

If you don't have the internal rectifying mechanism of tada'bur and tafakur, then a person has good manners at least. If you're not able to come up with this alone, if you aren't able to work on yourself alone, then you need someone that can point things out to you or give advice. That should really affect the amount of times that you engage in giving input and speaking and doing. Your period on earth will just be an extension of sin may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala protect us.