The Importance of Following God's Will

The church would like to make you feel as the recipient of abuse that you have some guilt to bear in it. But what I see in the heart of God and in Scripture is that God brings healing. He sets us free from the shame of what others have done to us against our will or without our knowledge. The minute you have someone who has exploited another person like this and they are seeking reinstatement, you can know without a shadow of a doubt that they are not repentant.