Wrestling Rats - How to Integrate Motivations

There's an emergent ethic of play in wrestling rats. If he, if you, if you pair them repeatedly, and the big rat doesn't let the little rat win, 30 % of the time, the little rat stops asking him to play. I mean, they're rats, for christ's sake. It's not like they're the world's most ethical animals, right? They're rats, and still they have to play fair. So what was i doing in maps of meaning and in 12 rules for life? Well, we're motivated creatures. Each of those motivations has to pursue its own goal, cause otherwise we die. But then those motivations have to get integrated within you