i would encourage you to do it in a slightly differ way, or, like, move one step further and just have a conversation about having conversations. Instead of talking about the issue, you can say, some imes, i hesitate to share things with you because i'm afraid that if i tell you and you can't help me, like you'll feel like inadequate. Then i would ask them that thatattat i'm not asking you. That's part of the conversation. So instead of telling them your problem and burdening them and making them feel guilty, what you can do is tell them about your fear of burdening them,. Does that make sense? Well, it makes sense