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#46 - Adam Lane Smith - Psychology of Attachment, Sex Drive and Social Mobility

Origin Story with David McIntosh Jr

CHAPTER

Do You Trust Your Partner?

Close your eyes and tell me three questions. Does that person trust you? Endidgood. Would you feel like a good partner in this circumstance? Ittle if you didn't have an attachment problem going into, you'd develop one half way through, right? Yes. Denying other people the ability to feel trusted, to love, to feel secure is denial of self-esteem. Your needs are actually being met by giving gifts for the other person's need. Their anxiety plummets through the floor because they never have to guess or wonder about what their partner wants. And instead of trying to pay it back like a debt, give them genuine gratitude. This can be just as effective

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