The Importance of Being Kind to Yourself

I noticed that when I actually started being proud of myself for those little things, I had a lot more motivation to do the bigger things in my life. If you're constantly telling yourself what you're doing wrong, or what you're not doing good enough, you're never going to be proud of anything that you accomplish. So yeah, that's being selfish in your 20s. That's what it means to put yourself first. You are the only person who is going to be in your life for literally ever.