What Do Human Beings Need to Feel Well and Whole?

I'm more thinking about what do human beings need to feel well and Whole for lack of a better word What are the things we crave when we don't have fear or kind of culture around denial piled on top of what we really long for. How much awe is available to us when we're not busy and distracted or attention and is broken through The kinds of activities we engage in or through Experiences we've had in the pastWhat could life really be like or what do we long for life to really be like? And That's really what I mean when I talk about who we are not so much like You know, you're gonna determine who you are and that's who you're gonna