If you're single, but want to be in a relationship then the question should be: what may be preventing me from being committal? And i'm just using something you just said in case that's there. You have a brain, but there's an observer and this intelligent sentient thing within us that can use their brain better. We are made up of a hundred trillion cells called quanta, and these cells are vibrating packets of energy. Our level of thought oscillates ahundred trillion of these cells. Is it possible my focus is actually collapsing, ok, waves of possibilities, and my focus takes possibilities and collapses from wave to particle of probabilities? Wow, that's a little deeper