How to Choose It Until You Become It

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There's an expression that we hear a lot in like professional environments that fake it till you make it. My spin on it is choose it until you become it. Choose to trust yourself moment by moment, day by day, until the feeling catches up. I think when we separate from our authentic selves, we create tears in our trust.

Confidence sherpa Nicole Kalil busts the myth about confidence and validation and shows you how to develop true confidence.

— YOU’LL LEARN —

1) What confidence really means

2) The four questions to ask when you have low confidence

3) How to build trust within yourself

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— ABOUT NICOLE —

Nicole’s passion for eliminating gender expectations and redefining “Woman’s Work” is both what keeps her up at night, and what gets her up in the morning. Well that, and an abundant amount of coffee.

An in-demand speaker, author of Validation is For Parking, leadership strategist, respected coach, and host of the “This Is Woman’s Work” Podcast, her stalker-like obsession with confidence sets her apart from the constant stream of experts telling us to BE confident. She actually shares HOW you build it, and gives actionable tools you can implement immediately.

A fugitive of the C-suite at a Fortune 100 company, she has coached hundreds of women in business, which has given her insight as to what – structurally, systemically and socially – is and isn’t serving both women and leaders within an organization.

Maintaining some semblance of sanity in her different roles of wife, mother, and business owner successfully is an ongoing challenge... in whatever free time she has, she enjoys reading and wine guzzling, is an avid cheese enthusiast, a hotel snob, and a reluctant peloton rider.

• Book: Validation Is For Parking: How Women Can Beat the Confidence Con

• Podcast: This is Woman’s Work

• Website: NicoleKalil.com

— RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —

• Book: The Miracle Morning: The Not-So-Obvious Secret Guaranteed to Transform Your Life (Before 8AM) by Hal Elrod

• Book: Think Again: The Power of Knowing What You Don't Know by Adam Grant

• Past episode: 357: The Six Morning Habits of High Performers with Hal Elrod

• Past episode: 842: How to Thrive in High-Stakes Situations with Carol Kauffman

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