Is There Really No Intimacy Without Humility?

There really is no intimacy without humility. I'm emotionally, emotionally, physically right now as opposed to what are the stories that I tell myself about myself. So powerful to and then I bring it into the context of intimacy radical intimacy. You know, a lot of people I've met or conversations I've had. There's a it's like we people would stop at the point of I'm mad at you or I'm frustrated you or you're not giving me what I want  and then it becomes this battle as opposed to this intimate discovery together.