Is There a Fear of the Intimacy?

The defence of the intimacy that manifests in this defence, they struggle with. Even if you say, sa, this joining statement, you will see them divert their eyes,. Their whole body feels threatening. And so there as lies, the threat is, if i'm in the known, i'm safe. But if i'm  in the unknown, whether it's my know or my knowledge, then i feel a little flaily like that. I think by slowing this down, then you can actually feel they actually aren't looking for anything from the person. They're looking to be heard and known. That truly is an experience of almost a young panic threat that's been disowned.