Can You Afford a Bar at a Wedding?

I personally believe that if you're throwing a celebration whatever is on offer should be on offer to everyone regardless of your income. I don't think it's really fair to then pass that cost directly off onto people and when people will talk about buying a gift is like oh you're supposed to like buy something that's the value of your plate of dinner in the u.s. another thing um so I think more I can't speak obviously for the entire UK but most weddings that I have been to are very much the same where you know couples who live together for years before getting married they have all of the crockery that they need. If you would like to give us a gift then