I Was Like, 'Wow, We Are Not Cool'

"I was fully on from day one that like, I'm going to make myself a decently sort of fun loving member of these societies," she says. "If it were choice between hanging out with my white friends in college versus hanging out with brown friends in PaxOC, I'd pick the brown friends 90% of the time." She has made some fantastic friends through ISOC and Pax OC but also neglected a few kind of close friendships at university. 'It's not about reinventing yourself - you just have to accept who you are'