People are afraid of their awesomeness. We'd rather project on to something that we think we can either blame or have control over. Instead of expecting, like, why am i looking like this? I'm supposed to look like this. It's really easy and clean to have expectations about things that youh you know. And it's eneri's all the same energy. So i don't know why i an energyis finite. If you focused that energy on loving yourself, and you turned that power into something that fed you instead of drained you,  think about how amazing we'd all be if we could actually do that.