The Psychology of Choking

The way to have fun on the date is not just at the level of, you know, order the messiest barbecue food you can and then like have physical fun. Have fun with the language, with the conversation. If she asks you a question that's serious, you can kind of go meta and answer it in a kind of silly way first, right? Then eventually answer it for real. But don't dive into it with some overly literal deer in the headlights kind of response,. You know, have fun with your language. So let's, I think that's all good advice. I want to talk for a second about the psychology of choking because, which is a slightly different field