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271. Attachment and Friendship in Adulthood: A Conversation with Dr. Marisa G. Franco

UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone

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I Don't Want to Be My Friend

I think one of the things we talk about the podcast a lot is like other people are not your emotional vending machines. It's unhealthy if someone tries to push through your walls right it's healthy when you see that someone's not reciprocating to move on and find people that will. You're basically like I want to stalker. I want somebody with like no boundaries. Because emotionally inappropriate regard for themselves. Yeah, who doesn't have any self esteem and doesn't read any consensual signal to like remove to me. But they want to be my friend that's so fucked up that's not what you want. No, no you don't want those things. That's a secure person exactly

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