I think there's a really big difference, too, in what you said between wanting it for somebody because it's healthy to have and can we agree on that? I would say i'm not mad at that suggestion. But sometimes i not even mack could feel like a proxy for they let me in. Bring it up once, but don't badger the person. Because if there's one thing we hate more than people try to pers us into opening up, i is nagging t your point vulnerability. So i'm telling you to chill. And now that you've rought it up, it makes me not want to talk about it even more. An it started to really piss