How to Deal With Anger

I think a lot of times people, so someone might guess that someone is angry, but really they're hurt. I actually had a client this morning talk about this that he'll avoid it. He sees it, but he doesn't want to talk about it because going, it's like the only emotions that are allowed are the happy, lovey, connecty ones or you know what I mean? That first, that first blush. It has to be handled with, with care. There's a whole set of skills you need in order to know what to do now that you know what’s going on with your partner.