Ido: For military leaders, i don't think that we have to go ice climbing with night to practise these same things. We can practise tis in art, in our organizations,. Like when we go out and we have a field problem and somebody makes a mistake, like actually taking the time to step back instead of immediately jumping on them. I love that this is what you do for living. This is like your life. But it's hard. It's hard. There's this idea you're not tough enough for people resent like ags. If nobody's ever speaking up to say they have cold hands... You can't have that. And if you just take, you know