"I was just the person in that moment that reminded her of something deeply painful in her past, you know? And it was a really powerful healing moment," he says. "It's just unreasonable to expect that when certain kinds of projections or insults are coming at you, that you're going to be able to meet it with equanimity and presence all the time." He adds: 'If you do it once or twice a week and you just improve incrementally over the course of a relationship, you're in the fucking Hall of Fame'

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