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[On-Air Coaching] Help! My child won’t listen [365]

Mindful Mama: Raising Kind, Confident Kids Without Losing Your Cool | Parenting Strategies For Big Emotions & More

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Are You Going to Rake a Slob?

If you model keeping things tidy, chances are she's going to absorb that lesson sooner or later. But right now she's in a big place of resistance against you because you've been forcing her to do stuff and threatening her. The tools of the threats and punishments those are extrinsic motivations right carrots and sticks. And we want to start to shift towards where she wants to cooperate with you and your hat and help around the house and do all those things with youBecause she's intrinsically motivated to do it, because she cares about you and wants to.

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