The Ultimate Paradox of Grief

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Grief was the parallel, the other side of the great love. I find it helpful to hold a kernel of it in my mind some of the time when i'm in the darknesso y,. This is transforming, but you still got to go through it, and it is not pleasant at certain moments. Some people really get into chronic grief. But many, many people are more resilient than they expect to be. And that doesn't mean they don't pass through the moments of feeling it so incredibly intensely. It can come up upon them unawares. Yes? So all that is part of the same messy soup. For sure. Absolutely. There ail like that's a lovely idea

Susan Cain is an author who has appeared in The New York Times, The Atlantic, The Wall Street Journal, and many other publications. Her record-smashing TedTalk has been viewed over 30 million times and was named by Bill Gates as one of his all-time favorite talks. Susan is the author of the book, Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World that Can’t Stop Talking, which spent seven years on the New York Times Best Selling List and has been translated into 40 languages..

In this episode, Eric and Susan discuss her new book, Bittersweet: How Sorrow and Longing Make Us Whole.

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Susan Cain and I Discuss How to Become Whole Through the Bittersweet and …

Her book, Bittersweet: How Sorrow and Longing Make Us Whole
Why some people really love sad music
How brokenness points in the direction of transcendence
How to know if you tend towards a bittersweet state of mind
Why do some people turn pain into something beautiful and in other cases people are broken by life’s difficulties
The way of “even so”
Union between souls when sorrow is shared
Understanding the messiness and unpredictability of grief
The mystery of bittersweet
The divine nature of longing
How longing is different from craving
Being open to great states of transition as gateways in our life
Moving on vs. Moving forward
Poignancy
What it means to turn in the direction of beauty