i think the basic problem is that your solution is actually creating your problem. So you have this fear of abandonment. And when you spend time with someone and they and that fear and you feel better, what do you think that's actually doing? The fear of abandonment! Doou the more time you spend with them, do you feel reassured? Yes. But also, i don't know how to put is pot am yo sait elliott er, i have the feeling that i can't afford to lose the friend. E so soves when i'm alone and don't have a constant fete. Ok a, yello, anything else you want to mention? Im, you