Shelley's husband died seven years ago and she didn't want to get out of bed. She says when you feel negative emotions that stress, that anxiety, that whatever anger, stop and just ask, what happened? What meaning did I give it? And just get. The meaning is in your mind, it's not in the events and the emotional go away and it'll give you freedom. Now, ultimately, if you get rid of your beliefs, you won't have to do that because the feeling won't come up.

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