Admitting you’re burnt out can feel like failure, but as Heather learns in this live coaching session, it’s actually the first brave step toward freedom.
In this coaching conversation, she opens up about the shame of slowing down and the fear that rest will undo everything she’s worked for. For years, she’s equated effort with worth, believing that if she just pushed a little harder, she’d finally feel secure. Now, even basic motivation feels impossible, and the idea of taking a real break feels terrifying. Through grounded, compassionate coaching, Sarah Vosen helps Heather untangle the shame that keeps her stuck and recognize that burnout isn’t a reflection of weakness, it’s what happens when capacity runs out but expectations don’t.
The turning point comes when Heather admits she needs more time than she’s willing to allow herself. That moment of honesty marks the real beginning of recovery. This episode is a reminder that stepping back isn’t quitting; it’s choosing to rebuild your life at a pace that actually sustains you.
Episode Breakdown:
00:00 Welcome to Fried: The Burnout Podcast
00:53 Live Coaching with Heather: Admitting Burnout
04:50 The Shame and Fear Behind Taking a Break
09:11 Capacity vs. Capability: The Core Burnout Distinction
15:17 When Burnout Becomes an Existential Crisis
20:24 Restoring Your Inner Ecosystem
22:24 Learning to Stop and Rest Without Guilt
25:07 Fear as a Symptom of Burnout
31:09 How Unconscious Coping Leads to Burnout
36:35 Taking the First Step Toward Recovery
41:01 Reframing Burnout as an Opportunity for Renewal
44:05 Reflections and Encouragement
Dive Deeper:
Burnout isn’t a personal failure or a lack of resilience. It’s a signal that something in the system, expectations, roles, pace, or support, is out of alignment. Conversations like this one help surface the human experience of burnout, while the broader work continues to explore how organizations can respond more intelligently and sustainably.
To explore burnout, leadership, and sustainable performance through a workplace and organizational lens, connect with Cait Donovan: https://bit.ly/bookcait
Learn more about Cait’s speaking work:
https://www.caitdonovan.com/speaking
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