Getting Stuck on Why Something Hasn't Happened the Way We Want It To

We get stuck on why something hasn't happens the way that we think it should. We are, of course, trying to control the uncontrollable. And entitlement is what we're experiencing when we do this. It's inverted narcissism, making ourselves out to be the best of the worst. I'm so inadequate. I'm not good enough. i'm not worthy enough.