Is There a One in a Lifetime Opportunity?

"I don't think the conflicted for mama that you should feel like you need to go, that you need to prove something by taking this opportunity," she says. "It would be great if you decide in the face of real fear about losing that mirror that you're going to do it anyway." She adds: "Hey, it's good that you had loyalty to that important relationship and maybe some part of you needed in that moment of your life to stay a little closer to that relationship"