Wen: I think too often it goes back to scot story, is like, scott's household is going to look different than her mam's household. And we should celebrate that instead of feel guilt or shame or embarrassment about why it's different. Wen: For years, i felt bad cause my dad, who, who god rest his soul, loved me, and he really did. But also, he just was wired differently, and saw things through a different lens.