When He Reaches Out to Touch Me, It's Hard to Be Petty, Like, No, You Don't Get to Touch Me

When we're in the middle f conflict, when he, you kno, touches my shoulder or whatever, to reach out, there's everything inside of me that wants to jerk away. But i think it's all the conversations that we've had in those moments that have made it so that i know tht what he just told you is he'ss something he's told me. So for us, i would say some of the biggest leverage points have been the conversations we have when we're calm.