What Is an Asshole?

A lot of people are afraid that when they embrace their villainy, they are going to be assholes in a way they've seen other people be. Here's what I want to say is that when you're when your villainy is conscious, and when you have unshamed your own reactions and anger or sadness or whatever it is,whatever you say becomes something for you as opposed to against someone else. And because the reason that sometimes it comes off like an asshole is because you have shame about you, what you're saying. So you kind of like turn that into aggression towards others.