How to Find a Tension Point Between Thinking and Feeling

i think that we're going to have to get the tension point right right? It can't be one side or the other. Who's going to win out in the end of the day? Is it gongto be super regulated and tightened down, or is ging to be just a free forall and expansive endlessly, and people r goin to get hurt? So which tension wins? Or how do we find a tension point as people, between these two broad energies, rather than having ina wars over it? Andis, it can be feeler verse feeler. But i think it's an easy way to see how conflict and decisions and a value of criteria show up