Is Gloria Steinham a Hypocrite, or a Punshlin?

I was reading, for some reason or another, gloria steinham's memoir a few years ago. And she notes in the dedication that he told her never to share his name. This is the condition of womankind. We carry the entire consequence of sex and we carry the danger of it. I mean, here's something as old as as human kind, warfare,. You could have a a woman on a base whose husband's deployed, and they've got kids and they're a family. She can split her children up into two households. Or she can find a safe, respectful place to keep her family together.