Oprah - Is There a Role Model for Success?

I feel like so many people, particularly in the spaces that you and I play in Oprah is kind of the gold standard by which they measure themselves. We only see the good things and there's a lot of survivorship bias and a whole other host of cognitive biases in these stories. How do we use people like this as a role model without having unrealistic expectations? And letting our ambition take us down this dark hole of not feeling like we're enough.