You have to be clear about what you want in your life and the goal. A lot of drama that people stir up, ind a lot of battles that get us all broiled up are not worth it. We don't want to simply whine and complain and feel sorry for ourselves. I don't think any human actually feels that is what they want in life. So i see a lot of people of the consulting that i do, as i try to make people understand what you're trying to do right now isn't worth it.