
Why you should connect with your kid, not correct them
Life Kit: Parenting
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Is Your Child Acting Out in a Series of Unacceptable Ways?
Shame starts out as adaptive in childhood. Our body learns this part of us is bad, so you're helpless. In a freez state, we don't listen to anyone or incorporate help. The only thing that matters is our presence and the more we do, the worse it gets. Telling the truth is a huge one. Another is shame detection. How do you define it and how do we use it? Yes, shame is one of the most powerful emotions. And when we know that, and then we have strategies, have had a deal with shame, our interventions are completly different. It's often saying nothing and just taking a deep breath. That really changes our
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